How to understand that a guy is excited and wants sex

It is difficult for young girls to determine the physiological manifestations during intimacy with a guy. Not everyone knows how to correctly identify the signs of male arousal. They are both physiological and psychological. Knowing them, any girl will be able to understand when the guy is excited and it's time to move on to the next stage of intimacy.

Signs of arousal when kissing

Touching each other with lips excite boys and girls. At the moment of a kiss, men give out their desire for sex with the following signs:

• Rapid breathing and heartbeat.
• Biting the partner's lips.
• Expanded nostrils.
• Pupil dilation.
• Redness of lips, cheeks.
• The guy tries to cling to the girl with his whole body.
• Formication.
• Hoarseness of voice after a kiss.
• Before kissing a partner, he licks his lips, bites them, touches them with his fingers.
• Touches his throat after a kiss.

After the kiss, the guy looks forward to continuing, excited to the extreme. He will give out excitement and other signs. Look at it carefully right after your lips part. He will have a lost, clouded look, most likely, the guy will take a deep breath and hug you tightly. If the kiss is not filled with passion, physical and emotional stress, then the man does not have strong feelings for his partner or his head is busy with something else.

Signs of arousal after a kiss in girls are the same as in men. But women can demonstrate it more vividly, for example, moaning or passionately caressing their partner's neck with their fingers.

During hugs

To understand that a guy is excited during a kiss is simple, you touch your lips, hear his breathing, feel his heartbeat. But hugs will not give you such a range of information. Although at the time of hugging, you can pay attention to the following manifestations:

• The partner wants to hug the girl, to reduce the distance between the bodies. Use any excuse to do so.
• The guy touches the partner's neck, face, hair, waist, shoulders, knees, arms.
• He does not immediately remove his hands from the body of his beloved, lingers, wants to lengthen the pleasant moment.
• The man tries to meet the woman's eyes. The look is deep and long.
• At the moment of hugs, he puts his head on the shoulder of his beloved, buries his nose in the neck.
• Makes progressive movements: firmly pressed, then moved away.
• After a passionate touch, the skin becomes "goose-eye", a shiver runs through it.
• He pulls at the edge of his clothes.
• He tries to get under the girl's blouse with his palm.
• Sweaty palms.
• Increased salivation. The guy is thirsty, drinks a lot of water.
• It tenses muscles, keeps the back straight to look more collected, toned.
• Penis tension. This symptom is the main and most noticeable, especially if the guy has tight pants or thin shorts.

Recently, scientists have discovered another hormone - kisspeptin. It activates the cells of the pituitary gland, which is responsible for the production of gonadtrop (sexual behavior). Therefore, it is not recommended to exclude lip-to-lip kisses from foreplay. This stage triggers a chemical reaction in the body and stimulates sexual desire.

physical signs

The physiology of men and women is such that at the moment of arousal, their body tenses up, expecting intimacy with a partner. Girls become more flexible, pliable, passionately react to the touch of a partner, the nipples harden, the genitals are moistened. For men, the situation is slightly different.

Physiological signs of sexual excitement in guys:

1. If he is next to the desired woman, he keeps his back straight.
2. He unbuttons the buttons on his shirt.
3. Adjusts the belt on his trousers.
4. Touches his face.
5. Slowly responds to interlocutor's questions.
6. Spreads legs wide when sitting.
7. Standing, takes the position of "feet shoulder width apart".
8. Bulging out the pelvis.
9. Gestures actively.
10. He speaks loudly and quickly.
11. He stares at the girl, trying to catch her eye.
12. He opens his arms as if imitating a hug.
13. Embarrassed.
14. Often licks lips.
15. Opens his mouth.
16. Lowers the timbre of the voice, a slight hoarseness may appear.
17. The face becomes sweet, kind, conducive to communication.
18. Eyebrows raised.
19. Stutters in conversation.
20. The pupils dilate, the color of the eyes may change.

In addition to the manifestations listed above, to understand that a man is excited to the limit, his sweaty palms, trembling hands and behavior like a peacock who has fluffed his tail and is courting his beloved female help. At such moments, girls need to control their behavior so that flirting does not go too far if the woman does not plan to have sex. Giving a guy false hopes with tricks, touches and flirting is not worth it.

Psychological signs

It is very difficult for men to hide arousal. They are given out by psychological signs of excitement. Guys do certain things, gesticulate in a special way. It is impossible to control this process. So pay close attention to your partner. You will understand that the guy is excited, but hides this fact if you notice the following manifestations:

1. A man worries about his appearance. Corrects clothes, hairstyle, looks in the mirror.
2. Does not move far away from the object of attention.
3. Lengthens the time of touching the hand if the girl passes something to him.
4. He is embarrassed to kiss, so he touches the girl's face and hair.
5. He showers the girl with compliments.
6. Moves to a whisper if he says something intimate.
7. Feels awkward if a girl looks at him without taking her eyes off.
8. He tries to please his partner in order to achieve what he wants.
9. When a girl reciprocates, smiles, experiences a spiritual uplift.

The psychological aspects of arousal must be considered individually. Each man has his own characteristics of behavior.

Signs of arousal while texting

Modern people very often strike up love relationships through dating sites and social networks, so correspondence becomes an integral part of communication. If the girl has not yet met with the interlocutor in person, and he writes several dozen SMS every day, you need to think about the fact that the man wants intimacy, rapprochement.

You can understand that a guy is excited during correspondence by the following signs:

• Often visits the social network to check for new messages from the object of attention.
• Uses any excuse to text a girl.
• Asks to throw a photo or sends his own. The frankness of the desired image depends on the degree of closeness between the guy and the girl.
• Quickly responds to messages, ready to help at any time of the day or night.
• Frankly admits to desire, although phrases can be veiled. For example, "I would like to see you now", "You can’t cope on your own, I could help if I were nearby", "It’s a pity that we live in different cities, I would definitely enroll in your swimming section and carefully review yourfigure. "
• Wants to correspond more often in the evenings, when he is relaxed and alone.

On a note! It is believed that the duration of sexual intercourse and the hardness of the penis directly depends on the behavior and appearance of a woman at the time of foreplay. Moans, gentle touches on the buttocks, back, body movements help to stimulate a guy for quality sex.

When talking on the phone

Signs of aroused men on the phone will be as follows:

• Long conversations.
• Calls for any reason.
• Pauses in conversation.
• Ambiguous phrases and questions with sexual overtones, so the guy is probing the waters.
• The voice is hoarse, the man tries to speak softly, to get rid of rude words.
• The boy is confused in his thoughts, answers out of place.
• In an excited man, the reaction to external stimuli slows down. So he speaks slowly on the phone.
• The guy breathes deeply, sighs often.
• Seeks to meet as soon as possible.
• Constantly repeats that he likes the interlocutor.
• Offers her different options for a date, agrees to any terms of the meeting.
• Kindles the girl's feelings by describing his virtues.

It is impossible to excite and tease a man by correspondence, telephone conversations for too long. Set the line yourself, taking into account the male character, his temperament. Otherwise, he will cool down and lose interest.

Tips for girls

Take note of the advice of sexologists on how to use knowledge about the physiological and psychological signs of male arousal:

1. Heart palpitations, shortness of breath, and a wide look are uncontrollable signs of arousal in guys, so they are the main ones. Read this information first.
2. The verbal symptoms of a burning desire for sex include the timbre of the voice, its pace, and the features of the conversation. To notice them, you need to communicate with a man not by correspondence, but in reality.
3. Another way to understand that a man wants sex is to follow his behavior at the time of the date. Wanting to win the female, he will show himself from the best side, keep his legs wide, perform uncontrolled reflex actions. But if a girl starts to follow his every step, she will be embarrassed, so watch your partner gradually, imperceptibly.

And one more important tip: if you understand that the guy is very excited, wants to see you in his bed, make a decision how your communication will continue. An erection without discharge is harmful to the male half. If a girl flirts and hints at sex, but constantly abandons her plans, playing with her partner's feelings, then this will affect the guy's health. It is better to stop communicating or state directly that you are not yet ready for sex than to entertain a man with false hopes for a long time.